We're privileged to read this open letter from Samantha's new family
to her old home. Sometimes we want to forget that our rescue dogs had lives before they
joined us. This very "Golden" family remembers and wants to provide closure and
comfort to Sam's old family.
(Samantha has been renamed Lady)
Giving up your pet must have been a very difficult
decision, and I've wrestled with whether or not to contact you with an update. It is not
my intention to make you sad thinking about Samantha, but I thought that if the situation
were reversed, I would always wonder what happened to my pet after she was adopted.
I wanted to drop you a line and let you know that Samantha is doing very well in her
new home, and while I'm sure that you still miss her, hopefully this knowledge it will
ease the pain of your separation from her.
We live in the bay area, and Samantha is our second golden. Our first is an 8 year old
male (neutered), and the two of them get along like older brother and younger sister. We
have an open space with trails and woods at the end of our street, and Sam loves to run
and socialize there on her multiple walks every day. She has been very obedient, actually
surprisingly so for a new dog, so she rapidly earned the ability to run and play off the
leash on the trails. She enjoys this very much.
We have two children, 10 and 12. Sam and our son (12) have hit it off very well- it's
kind of like having a second 12 year old (or a second 16 month old golden!). When he comes
into the room, her ears perk up because she's sure that hijinks and fooling around will
start in short order. They're a real tagteam, and with our other golden getting up in
years and unwilling to wrestle like he used to, these two are building a great
relationship. In the evenings, she loves to nuzzle up with us when we watch TV.
Sam's trying to figure out our black house cat, who is starting to come down from the
bedrooms to get a closer look of the new addition. She still chases the cat, but has
stopped searching under the furniture for her. Our last pet is a lop eared rabbit, and
while they haven't played together, Sam passes by her cage often on the side of our house
without paying much attention.
She's a real swimmer- only I don't know who to blame when she's in the pool- Sam or our
children. She only goes in when the kids are in, so I don't think this will be a major
problem.
We run Sam at the local high school with our golden and a friend's male 12 month old
retriever. Sam has him pinned to the ground in short order, despite his out weighing her
by more than several pounds. She looks forward to it, and we can bring her all the places
we usually take our golden.
I guess in closing, please know that Sam is now with a loving family, adjusting well to
her new home and we all understand what a sacrifice it must have been to have to give her
up to the rescue organization. We were saying prayers one night and my son said that God
works in strange ways- we wanted a second golden, and Sam became available at the right
time. I hope that this letter gives you comfort in knowing that while difficult, you made
the right decision in having Sam adopted, and the conclusion to the story was a happy one
for Sam.
Good luck and God bless. |